Best Self Help Books for Women: Overcoming Self-Doubt and Building Confidence

Growing up, I was an avid reader, but all the books I wanted to read were romantic novels….and the occasional crime and thriller novel…hello Sidney Sheldon. I was never into the idea of reading about Personal Self Improvement….I thought that was for rich or poor dads who wanted to talk about chicken soup. As I grew and encountered life challenges, I moved through life, solving problems on my own, or sometimes with the help of a family member. I figured that this was what life was until I encountered a challenge that I was unable to solve on my own, and no one around me had the answers, nor the experience that would solve this particular issue. Personal growth and development are essential aspects of our lives that require attention and nurturing, and while going through a journey of transformation, I was fortunate enough to be referred a book that offered guidance on navigating this particular challenge and others which were unique to women's experiences.

  • Self-help books for women can empower and inspire personal growth and development

    These books offer practical strategies and insights to overcome self-doubt, build confidence, navigate relationships, advance in your career, and achieve financial independence

    Empowering reads cultivate mindfulness, emotional well-being, body positivity, and self-love

    Self-help books aim to inspire and empower women to live their best lives

    Explore the recommended books and embark on a journey of personal transformation

Why Self Help Books Matter for Women

As a woman, I have found that self-help books specifically targeted towards women can be incredibly empowering and transformative. These books focus on the unique challenges and experiences that women face and provide guidance and strategies for navigating them. Going beyond personal growth; these empowerment books emphasize building confidence, fostering positive self-esteem, and cultivating a sense of fulfillment and purpose in life. These resources provide valuable insights and practical tips, aiding women in overcoming obstacles, developing a growth mindset, and embracing our unique identity and diversity.

Many self-help books for women also touch on topics like mental health, relationships, career, financial independence, and wellness, providing guidance and support for those seeking to grow and empower themselves.

Overall, these books play a vital role in the personal development of women, as they foster resilience and help women to navigate life with confidence, self-love, and authenticity.

At TGLM, we are all about creating a space for women and femmes to unveil their best selves and we figured, why not create a list of the best self help books for women? So we scoured the internet, asked around - on social media and our trusted friends- to find out which books topped everyone’s lists in helping them become better versions of themselves. Today, we will focus on books that help in overcoming self doubt and building confidence.

Overcoming Self-Doubt and Building Confidence

Overcoming self-doubt and building confidence are common challenges many people face. Self-doubt and limiting beliefs can hold us back from reaching our full potential. That's why finding empowering self-help books that offer practical strategies and insights to build confidence and boost self-esteem can be a game-changer for women. There are numerous self-help books that provide valuable insights, practical strategies, and inspiration to help individuals on their journey towards greater self-assurance. Below are ten of my top picks for self-help books that will help you overcome self-doubt and cultivate a positive mindset:

The Confidence Code: The Science and Art of Self-Assurance—What Women Should Know by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman

This book explores the science behind confidence and its importance in achieving success. It provides practical advice on how to build confidence, overcome self-doubt and create success in all aspects of your life. 

Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are So You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be by Rachel Hollis

In this book, Rachel Hollis shares her own personal experiences with self-doubt and reveals how she overcame them. She offers practical tips and strategies for women to do the same, showing them how to embrace their imperfections, believe in themselves, and conquer their goals with confidence. 

You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life by Jen Sincero

Jen Sincero's book provides a witty and irreverent guide to overcoming self-doubt and building confidence. It offers practical exercises to shift your mindset, overcome limiting beliefs and live a life you love. 

Year of Yes: How to Dance It Out, Stand In the Sun and Be Your Own Person" by Shonda Rhimes

Shonda Rhimes, our favorite TV showrunner and creator of hit TV shows like Grey's Anatomy, Bridgerton and Scandal, shares her journey of saying "yes" to life-changing opportunities. This memoir is both inspiring and empowering, encouraging readers to step out of their comfort zones.

Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol S. Dweck

Carol Dweck's groundbreaking work on mindset is a powerful resource for those looking to transform their self-perception. The book explores the concept of a fixed mindset versus a growth mindset and how adopting a growth mindset can lead to increased confidence and resilience.

Daring Greatly by Brené Brown

Brené Brown's work on vulnerability and shame is foundational for anyone seeking to overcome self-doubt. Daring Greatly explores the connection between vulnerability and courage, encouraging readers to embrace vulnerability as a path to confidence and wholehearted living.

More Than Enough: Claiming Space for Who You Are (No Matter What They Say) by Elaine Welteroth

Elaine Welteroth, former editor-in-chief of Teen Vogue, shares her journey to success and self-discovery. The book empowers readers, especially women of color, to embrace their uniqueness and claim their space with confidence.

Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert

Although not explicitly a book about confidence, Elizabeth Gilbert's Big Magic is a fantastic read for anyone who wants to harness their creativity and face their fears. Gilbert encourages readers to embrace curiosity, let go of perfectionism and have the confidence to pursue their creative passions. 

The Misadventures of Awkward Black Girl by Issa Rae

In this collection of essays, Issa Rae, the creator and star of the HBO series Insecure, shares her experiences as an introverted and awkward individual. The book explores themes of self-acceptance and finding confidence in one's uniqueness.

Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers

In this classic self-help book, Susan Jeffers addresses the common fears that hold people back and provides a framework for facing and overcoming them. The book empowers readers to confront their fears, including self-doubt, and take action towards personal growth.


By reading and applying the insights from these empowering self-help books, you can develop the tools and mindset to overcome self-doubt and cultivate confidence.