Learning how to love safely is a key part of opening ourselves up to a romantic relationship. No matter how much you crave finding your person, you must first desire finding a love that is nourishing to you.

Starting over is a timely girlie, who only shows up when she is ready, so if you are content with where you are, these thoughts would not even materialize.

Somewhere along your journey, you became the girlie who feels guilt and shame every time you consider doing something just for you.